Flirting may not be my cup of tea…

So I was flirting with this guy I know, I’ve always known he existed but we’ve recently become good friends. My ideal type of flirting is more of,”you’re a nice human. There should be more humans like you” or like “you’re like a bowl of soup, hot”
So I think that explains to you how much I suck at flirting. But with him, I feel like I’m starting to get the hang of it, because in the midst of my conversation with him about thoughts, I just so happened to say this…
“I think you know very well sire. My thoughts are something beyond your control, provoke them if you must, they tend to get creative.” I don’t think I realized how sexual it sounded until after I said it. But come on, I tried. It can’t have been that bad?!
How to people manage to be so witty and so flirtatious? Like I’m just here being a couch potato and giving up on the entire idea of love, all thanks to food and television. Every time someone actually manages to flirt with me and get me interested, I just smile like a butthole and cover my head under a blanket until I have to come out because of shortage of air. Huh.
Still confused.

12 Comments Add yours

  1. ljaylj says:

    Flirting isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. When I was single and flirted, it got me no where. Now, I’m a olderly wiseguy just trying to be funny and I get accused of flirting. Hmmmm…my wife usually just tells people not to take my flirting serious because in reality, I’m harmless. Oh yeah? What if I don’t want to be harmless? Nevermind…

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    1. Hahahah well, you might wanna listen to your wife, because damn those women can be harmful, even if your flirting isn’t.

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  2. irtfyblog says:

    No one is good a flirting. It just sorta happens. Kind of “off the cuff” type of remarks that leave the other person knowing there’s a spark, but no heat as of yet. However, it does lead to more exchanges until one of you finally makes a physical move.

    Also, don’t give up on love just yet…it’s out there. Keep your head above the covers and let it find you. πŸ˜‰

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    1. Hahah sure will πŸ™‚ Thank you.

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  3. Your words to that guy sounded quite Shakespearian! I have always been hopeless at flirting. Kevin

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    1. I know right!? I was quote proud of myself for coming up with that.
      Same here, but one must keep trying.

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  4. Sorry for the off topic comment but if you are interested in doing a guest post on my blog I would be pleased to host one from you. My blog, is mainly about my writing. However I have hosted a number of guest posts from fellow authors and bloggers. If you would like to do a post do please get in touch, (I think, when I comment you see my email address so please feel free to contact me via this). The post could be on your favourite book, a poem you love or another topic of your choosing

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    1. That sounds quite interesting. I’d love to, however I must wait a few days until my exams elapse, if that’s alright?

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      1. Yes that is absolutely fine. Your exams are very important and I wish you every success with them. I’m sure everything will go well. Just get in touch when its convenient for you. Best. Kevin

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      2. Thank you, I’ll get back to you soon.

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  5. Haha. Awe bless you. Seems like your doing alright to me! Anyone who’s got the balls to call someone sire deserves a round of applause. Keep up the writing and try not to panic so much! You seem confident in your writing, it’s sure to come out in your everyday life πŸ™‚ don’t force yourself to say things you don’t feel comfortable with!!

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    1. Hahah thank you so much πŸ™‚


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