So, I was travelling by metro yesterday because I was coming back from a friend’s house since I went there after my exam. While I was in the metro, I saw this girl and she looked kinda sad. She was wearing a pink sweater with white stripes on it and black jeans to go with it. She looked nice. So, I went up to her and I told her that I loved her sweater, and the smile that appeared on her face was so wonderful. It made me feel all warm inside.
I’ve decided that everyday, I will try to compliment someone, whether on their appearance or their nature or whatever. Who knows you could have made their day!? I’ve noticed that we’re all becoming so bitter, judging people from the sidelines. One compliment is not that hard, let’s get on with it!
The Adventures of a Teenage Cynic…
Well, your post made me smile too! You continue to surprise me girl…. Keep it up! ā¤
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That is so sweet! Thank you š
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I wonder how that would work out for me as a guy? Girls would mostly take it out of context and most guys would feel weird on being complemented.. š
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Well, even if a girl does take it out of context, as long as it’s nice and sweet and you sorta back off after saying it, it should be okay. Plus everybody likes being complimented, you just gotta know how to go about it!
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Yes.. Am learning that. In fact that’s an important part of communication, to ensure that one is sensitive about other people’s sensitive spots. And girls are totally justified in their reaction, guys are mostly doing this with ulterior motives. š
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That’s very true, besides in India, I mean can you really blame them for being scared?
I was planning on taking a few classes on communication skills but I’m contemplating on whether I need it that bad.
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Yes, the girls definitely are in the right.. But there also another side to it, the genuine guys take the beating, so now I am very careful with the compliments.
Also, I have found the best way to learn communication is to have it.. š
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Hahah that’s true, one must be very careful. I’ve been trying that lately. Thank you
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Its funny right. One has to be careful even before complimenting.. š Had a nice conversation. Take care. š
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True.
Same here š
You too
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